[chicken mince] What are we meant to do with negativity in our lives?

ngeapk.blogspot.com - Each morning, I wake up and I am thankful for all that I have been given. I am thankful for a loving husband. I am thankful for a beautiful, healthy and smart son. I am so thankful to be pregnant again. There are so many things that I am thankful for.
And then there is that little bit of negativity that I cannot seem to get rid of.
Is it a female thing or is it a personality thing – I just can’t seem to stop caring about this part of my life. My husband is able to push it out of his mind, he says that I just shouldn’t worry about it; I just shouldn’t think about it, I just shouldn’t care about it… But I do.
And when I think about it, I worry about it and it makes me angry. I have tried to focus on positive thinking and meditating on all things positive and happy in my life – it works… some of the time.
I know that it is a work in progress and I feel that I can manage it better then I have in the past. However, I can also see how this type of negativity has festered in people’s lives for years and years and how it slowly eats them up inside.

These people put on a brave face and make out like everything is peachy, but they crack under the slightest pressure and you can see that they are unhappy and this issue of negativity weighs heavily on their mind – still.

These people are people who I consider to be strong. These people are people who speak their mind. These people are still trapped by issues of negativity in their lives.

How can I overcome this negativity - and hence, maybe help these people to move on too?

I am opening this up to the blogosphere… for tips and tricks and help - in whatever form it may come it. I will be grateful for the advice that is offered and I hope that I might be of help to others who are also sharing this burden.

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